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Word For 2019

1/17/2019

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Can you believe that we are over half way through the first month of 2019?
Over the past few years, I have been using a word to focus on for the year. It usually means what I want to do more of during the year. Initially, I was thinking that my word would be Abundance and Implement. During my quiet time and listening for what God wants me to focus on - the word Nurture popped up.
Nurture - 1. (n) care for and encourage the growth or development of  2. (v) the process of caring for and encouraging the growth or development of someone or something.
I had conversations with two of my power circle sistas  (these are women who I trust what they are saying to me) and they confirmed what had been rising up. One  asked me “how is your heart?”during our lunch date. She began to ask me questions about how was I nurturing myself.
Later that night the other texted me and  asked how was I going to take care of myself more in 2019. I was like okay “God, I hear you.” Both of these women acknowledged that I am great at nurturing the growth and development of others but what am I doing to grow and develop “self”.
The realization that as a counselor, leader and woman, I am great at nurturing others but I don’t do well at  nurturing who I am as a woman. So my focus will be to nurture who I am as a woman.
You may be asking how this looks for me:
  • I am intentional about caring for my physical, mental and spiritual wellness. I spend time spending time with God (focusing on my Year of Yes to God) through bible study and prayer. I am making better choices with my food intake cutting down eating sweets and carbs plus adding more movement to my routine.
  • I will be more intentional about nurturing my relationships with my inner circle.  I will have to distance some relationships because I find myself focusing more on that person and their drama and the friendship is not feeding and cultivating through reciprocity.

Last thing, I was reading Dr. Nadia Brown’s blog about what her word for the year is. She shared her word but she also shared a question that her coach asked her the question “what would you like to create in 2019?”

Leave in the comments or reply and let us know what is your word(s) for 2019 and what you would like to create in 2019.
As always,
Dr. Lacrecia


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Professional Identity 101: Calling

12/27/2018

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One of the questions that I usually ask other counselors  when I meet them is - “why did you choose to become a Counselor?”
Most of the time they start out with a story about how they have always been the friend who others came to for advice or their own story of going to a counselor and what they experienced.  However, somewhere in the conversation, they say “I feel like I was called into counseling.”
Calling - a strong urge toward a particular way of life or career.
I remember my own call into the profession. In 1999, I took a Psychology of Adjustment Class as just something to do. The professor had us create a five year career/life plan. I had created my plan and it was based on getting a MBA and continuing in the business industry.
During our class discussion, there was a classmate sitting next to me and he stated that he was going to Trevecca University to get a degree in counseling. It was like an alarm went off in me - my strong urge. I called to get more information and the rest is history.
There are several routes we can take to answering our call into the profession. The path may not be clear at the beginning but as we gain more experience the path opens more. I remember when I answered the call into the profession, I questioned why. The path did not look like I expected. My professional journey has been one filled with twists and turns.
My first job was working in community mental health as a Counselor II work with SPMI (severely persistently mentally ill) adults. Then I moved into a supervisor position that took me on a different journey. Now I am working with mental health professionals in my clinical and leadership services business.
Understanding that the work we do is a calling is essential to creating a solid professional identity.
How did you answer your call into the profession?
As Always,
Dr. Lacrecia~The Confident Counselor Leader
P.S. I created a Niche Defining Worksheet that you may find helpful. Click here to get a copy.
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Hello December...Reflect and Chill

12/2/2018

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Hello December!!!!!!!

Can you believe that we are in the last month of the year?

We can enter the month with the rush of trying to get everything done that we made goals to complete in January or we can reflect on the blessings of 2018 and chill. I actually like the last suggestion.

So with that being said, I will make this blog post short.

What are some things that you do to plan for the next year?
I would like to share with you a couple of  things I have done so far:
I listened to Rosetta Thurman’s (Happy Black Woman) podcast on 5 Ways to Reignite Your Passion For Your Business. During the podcast, she talks about asking yourself “What do I want? What do I really want? What do I really, really want?” I pulled out my journal and reflected on these questions.

I watched Aprille Franks-Hunt’s Planning For Profits training. During the training, she helps you plan products and services that you would like to launch quarter to quarter.

I am going to practice what I preach and take some time to rest, review, reflect and recharge.

As Always,

Dr. Lacrecia - Confident Counselor Leader
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Are You Called to Lead?

11/19/2018

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How many times have you heard - “________ is a great clinician but a horrible boss/leader?” or maybe not heard it but you have thought it or said it to yourself.
OR maybe I hear it more than others because I am an independent clinical supervisor and I hold space with overwhelmed and frustrated counselors.

During these sessions, I try to remind the counselor that most clinicians who are placed in supervisory positions were not trained to lead. They were either forced into the position because of high turnover and no one else was there to do it or they were running low on fumes from direct service burnout and decided they would try their hand at being a supervisor/leader. In our masters programs, we are taught to be great clinicians but we are not taught how to lead.

On the other side, when I call out the leader inside of that counselor - the look of fear or deer in the headlights stare. As counselors, we are called to lead but at times we shrink back because we don’t want to be named as the “great clinician but horrible leader.” In our masters programs, we are taught to be clinicians but we are not shown how to take the same skills and become great leaders in our community and the profession.

During my doctoral studies, I researched leadership practices of Mental Health Counselors and leadership in the counseling profession. I posed a question, “are master’s level counselors adequately prepared for leadership roles in the profession?” The question posed could have been “do mental health counselors perceive themselves as leaders?”

I based my study on James Kouzes and Barry Posner’s Five Exemplary Leadership Practices. They have researched thousands of individuals about their “personal best” leadership experiences. They discovered  five common practices that exemplary leaders engage:
  • Leaders model the way
  • Leaders inspire a shared vision
  • Leaders challenge the process
  • Leaders encourage the heart
  • Leaders enable others to act

Leadership practices can be nurtured and developed in others. As counselors these are practices that we engage in when we work with our clients. These are practices that we engage in when we get involved in our community and profession.

Before I discuss each of the practices and define a leader, I want to leave this right here and ask you “Are you called to lead?”  - leave a YES in the comments.
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As Always,
Dr. Lacrecia
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The Ease of Purpose

11/11/2018

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Can  I be honest with you?

After my brand launch, I experienced that feeling of let down. I did not feel much joy because I was still wrestling with  what is next. This usually happens to me after I do something big or accomplish a hard earned goal. I believed that the brand launch would be the secret bullet to ease me into my purpose.
I knew I had a trip to the beach planned for the week after the launch. The beach is one of my happy places and it allows me to get quiet and listen. As I sat out on the balcony and watched the waves flow in and out, I found myself asking “Why do I struggle with easing into purpose?”
I could hear my spirit (God)  speak “look at how the ocean flows in and out”. The ocean knows that it was created to be the ocean (identity). The ocean knows its purpose - to flow in and out by being a preserver of life. The ocean does not question whether it has the clarity, capacity, confidence and courage to be the ocean.  Why do we?
The realization that when we are in alignment with who we were created to be and what we were created to do….it should flow like the ocean. Alignment with identity and purpose should be like breathing because it comes from the heart of God. In Genesis 1 - the bible speaks of how God spoke and the ocean took on its identity and purpose.  The bible continue to speak of how God blew His breath into Adam and he took on his identity as man and was given purpose. I would like to believe that when God blow His breath into us in our mother’s womb (Jeremiah 1:5) - is when our identity and purpose collides and our call to impact is awaken.
So you may be asking - why is it a struggle to ease into purpose? There are four areas of perceived lack that I have found that keeps us from flowing in the ease of purpose:
Lack of Clarity
The perception that we do not know who we are or what we were created to do is fostered by the avid clamor of outside noise. The way to gain clarity is to get quiet and ask yourself those deep questions. Who was I created to be? What was I created to do? The process of understanding you begins with YOU.
Lack of Capacity
The idea that we lack the capacity to be and do according to purpose. We believe that we do not have what it takes to go fully after what we truly desire. We are not filled vessels, we are able to give away our gifts through service and we receive from others through their gifts (Note: don’t misunderstand - I believe that our gifts make room for us and provides income). Write down what you believe that you do not have to complete the divine assignment and then ask God to fill you in those spaces. You have the capacity to do what you were created to do.
Lack of Confidence
Our level of confidence is tied to our belief in who we are and what we have the capacity to do in purpose. Remember that no one else can be a better you than you and you can not fail at being you. No, the journey will not be without missteps but it is your journey to purpose. Being confident in who you are evolves as you gain clarity about your authentic self and the capacity to which you are here to serve. This takes a mindset shift in how you see who you are and what you were created to do.
Lack of Courage
Courage allows us to foster the strength to do what frightens us. The ability to be and do has already been released inside of you to have impact in your community, profession and world. Psalm 27:14 reminds me that when I seek God and courage it will be given to me.
While at the beach, I was able to gain greater clarity about my purpose. I realized that I have the capacity to share my expertise and experience in leadership which will grow my confidence and courage as I serve through building community and connection.
Take a few minutes to get quiet and ask yourself - the following question:
Who was I created to be  and what was I created to do- how am I limiting myself with my perceived lack of clarity, capacity, confidence and/or courage?

Leave your response in the comments.

As Always,
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Dr. Lacrecia
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October: New Season, New Beginnings!

10/26/2018

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​October has always been my month! Not only is it my birthday month but some real cool professional and life milestones have happen for me in October and guess what this October will not be any different.

  • October 2004 -  I started my first Outpatient Counselor position after completing my Masters Degree and internship. as I was transitioning out of the finance industry.
  • During my tenure at FCS, I would usually receive a promotion or job change in October.
  • October 2012 - I taught my first weekend course as an adjunct.
  • October 2013 -  I made the decision to resign from a position that I took out of fear after leaving my job in May.
  • October 2014 -  I defended my dissertation and became Dr. Lacrecia Dangerfield.
  • October 2015 - I held my first Women’s Empowerment Conference and truly embarked upon life as a full-time entrepreneur.
  • October 2016 -  Launched a new brand look for ReImprint Your Life.

Are you asking?  What will happen for you October 2018?  

Drumroll…………………………Drumroll…………………………………Drumroll

As a way to celebrate my birthday, I will be launching my new brand drdangerfield.com.

Check out the feel of the brand...the colors …logo...new services.  

Tell me what you think.

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